My name is Gulchira, it means «beautiful like a flower». I
do not think I am a beauty, but the words «nice» and «pretty» would
match me.
I was born on 1 January 1966, so I celebrate my birthday
and the New Year together. I am 156 cm tall and my weight is about
56 kg. I have thick curly dark-brown hair, long eyelashes, brown eyes
and good eyesight. I am very optimistic and
lively, I have a beautiful smile, I like dealing with people and it
is very nice to see that they enjoy our communication. I love being
helpful.
I have higher economic education, higher theological
education and special medical education. I am an economist-accountant
by trade. I have fluent Russian and Tartar, I have no problems with
reading English, can understand speaking and speak a little, I also
know German a bit.
My main devotion is faith. I am Christian, I joined
Baptist church in 1992 and I was baptized in water in 1993. I try
to follow the Bible commandments and I believe it is the best way
to live your life. As the God blesses everybody
who loves him and gives people all essential things. I believe the
God has prepared a spouse for me to live happily the rest of our lives.
I would like to have a church wedding ceremony as my husband and I
will promise before the god to love each other and to be faithful.
Then our marriage will be blessed.
According to the Bible a woman is a helper and a
friend, whose main devotion is to console and to bring comfort into
the house and family relationship. She inspires and helps her husband
in everything. The history of the humankind has seen so many examples
of men’s greatness due to their wives` merits. Woman’s labor is not
often seen, but the result of her work is her husband’s success. A
pious wife like a pious husband is a gift of the god.
I enjoy living and getting to know this world. I
am fond of traveling and I would love to travel with my husband. I
like reading and watching educational programs. I am especially fond
of reading the Bible and praying – that is my communication with the
god. I like reading books by American Christian psychologists about
family, marriage and bringing up of the children. The God made his
children wise to succeed in life. I lead healthy life, do not drink
alcohol, never use drugs, I do not smoke and never did it before.
I prefer being spiritually and physically healthy. I enjoy doing sports,
especially swimming. I think sports give me stamina and patience.
I am interested in underwater world, diving, I think I might like
training dolphins.
I enjoy cooking. I prefer spending my spare time
at home, in a quiet atmosphere, reading or listening to some lyrical
music. I grow plants at home and like keeping everything in order.
I greatly value the time, so everything is planned. I have a schedule
for every day saying what is to be done. Though life can not be planned
entirely, something unexpected may happen. It helps me to be well-organized,
active, purposeful and responsible. I have one more merit, I am good
at planning my expenditure and dealing with money. It helps me to
be on my own.
I was born into a family with many children in the
country. I love children, the nature and animals. Though I am not
in favor of keeping pets at home. I have never been married and have
no kids. At the moment I live in Naberezhnye Chelny. My town is clean
and young, its population is about 700.000 people. The main industry
is machine-building.
I think that marriage and family should be based
on love. Marriage and family can be happy only if there is a full
unanimity there achieved by two mature personalities able to give
and accept love, to stay independent, to live according to the scale
of values, to be responsible and self-confident, not to be afraid
of troubles and failures, to develop and to live their own lives.
Intimate relations can appear only if there is spiritual, emotional
and physical connection. It happens when spouses take interest in
each other’s life. It should involve all spheres of life, work, interests,
chores, bringing up of kids, ambitions, personal growth. You should
dispose yourself to thinking, saying and doing only nice things despite
any circumstances. You should show understanding, attention, respect,
generosity, admiration, warmth and care in relationship with each
other. Conflicts should be settled peacefully, making a compromise
if necessary. You should not criticize, give orders or control your
partner. It is good when a person is balanced, never loses his temper
and talks wisely and calmly without showing irritation. Man’s character
and his features are his main merits. I know there are no ideal people,
everybody has his own merits and shortcomings. We should constantly
work at our own character admitting the shortcomings.
I am looking for a partner, a Christian loving the
god and people, kind, sincere and honest, able to sympathize and forgive,
generous and faithful, attentive, respectful, open and realistic,
having a quiet and resolute character, respecting his own freedom
and other people’s right to be free, responsible for what he says
and does. My future husband should be mentally and physically healthy
and able to keep his family. My priorities are my relationship with
the God, my spouse, children, work, church activities for the sake
of people. I would like to meet a man sharing my ideas, values, interests
and wishing to have a Christian family. If you feel interested, please,
write me.
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updated in September 2002
