Writing such a letter is not an easy task for me, but I will try not
to seem better than I am and not to be selfish, and at the same time
not to forget about my advantages. To begin with, all the women I
know think that I am extremely beautiful. I do not know men’s opinion
about that, but I think that is because two types of blood – Russian
and Asian are mixed in me. I look a bit exotic comparing to fair-haired
Russian ladies.
My name is Irina,
I am 33 years old (born July 27th 1968). My star sign is Leo and I
was born in the year of Monkey. I live in a Russian town Syzran, in
the region of Samara
,
which is situated on river Volga. I am 171 cm tall and my weight is
60 kg, so I am rather slim. That is about by appearance.
As for my inner
world, it is more difficult to describe. You see, if a single woman
has a son, people expect her to have firm character and very peculiar
life experience. And if I tried to describe the previous years in
detail, it would look like TV series. I live with my eight-year-old
son and, of course, often meet my relatives. I think my solitude can
be explained by the fact that my studies and my job have been the
priorities for me for a long time.
Strange it may
seem, but as years pass, family and marriage start being more important.
Men’s attitude to women like me is changing in our country, but I
do not expect anything good from Russian men and try to avoid them.
It would be a lie, if I told you that I am not looking for financial
stability and my search for a husband is completely idealistic. I
am too Russian (or too Asian, if you like) not to dream about funny
things, which sometimes seem not to exist: feeling warm, cozy and
protected, being able to console and be consoled.
I do not want
to write that I like charming honest people, as it sounds formal and,
besides, if I love a person, I can forgive his lack of charm and kindness.
And I even think that"financial stability" is rubbish comparing to
a chance to embrace and forgive somebody, though I may think so because
I have not had this chance for long. I am too busy to love nature,
dogs and cooking. But I live in a very funny town, which looks very
urban in the center and has beautiful landscapes in the outskirts,
so if I manage to forget about this invisible border between these
two worlds, I start thinking about such things as dogs and cats, parrots
and children, houses and fireplaces, pies and flower-beds. You see,
one good Russian book says"There is some sense in breakfast if on
the table there are two cups and not one" (in my case there should
be three cups as I always have breakfast with my son). It is a pity,
that there is nothing peculiar about me in this situation, I am just
one of Russian brides.
And if I say that
the man of my dream is tall, slim and businesslike, I will look ridiculous.
For me it is difficult to define verbally what exactly I am looking
for, but at the same time I am adult enough to realize that it is
a good starting point for any lucky search. And as I am a woman, I
have the right to have small caprices. I would not mind my partner
being in love with music as I am, and later on I could tell him how
much I love it. I hope this letter will help you to have a right idea
of me and will help me in this difficult matter.
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