How
To Ruin Your Online Dating Success
Copyright
(C) 2006 Elena Solomon, author of 12
Simple Rules
These
days you seldom meet a single person who never tried online dating - unless they
aren't Internet users.Since you are reading this, I assume you ARE online - so
this information can be crucial for your online dating success. Most people placing
personal ads on Internet dating sites seem to do everything to RUIN any of their
chances for success. Are you one of them? Here
is how to ruin your online dating campaign: 1.
CHOOSE A SLEAZY USER NAME Dating
sites usually display your user name in your personal profile. So, if you choose
something like "hardcoreXXX" or "badgirl_69", you are sure
to mess up your chances dramatically. 2.
WRITE A TIMID MESSAGE Every
day I see people writing in their messages things like, "I hate this part
but here it goes", "I never know what to write here" or simply
"Ask me". Your personal message is the only thing in your profile that
is UN-structured - the rest are usually just tick boxes. Make sure you don't say
anything interesting here, so no one will feel compelled to learn more about you. 3.
DON'T HAVE ANY PARTNER REQUREMENTS Your
requirements for a partner say VOLUMES about YOU. If you do not have any requirements
for a partner, you will sound absolutely desperate. No one is attracted to desperate
people. 4. DON'T
UPLOAD A PHOTO Most
users of dating sites search for profiles with photos. If you do not upload your
photo, no one will find your ad. It will also severely damage the chances of your
"Hi's", "Virtual Kisses" or "Smiles" being answered. 5.
DON'T PAY FOR PREMIUM MEMBERSHIP Usually
online dating sites will allow you to place your personal ad for free, but to
write to other singles, you have to buy a subscription. Although the price of
subscription is cheaper than the price of a movie ticket and popcorn, you should
not be tempted. By sticking with the free membership, you ensure you cannot contact
anyone. Also some sites place ads of premium members on top of the search results.
If you do not pay, your ad will appear on the page 247 of the search results -
which will make it nearly impossible to find. 6.
DON'T CONTACT OTHER MEMBERS Most
online dating services will allow you to contact other members for free by sending
a "Hi", "Virtual Kiss", "Icebreaker" or "Smile"
- an expression of interest, to which the other member can respond. Don't send
any of those to anyone, or they may just answer positively. Think only about how
bad would you feel if they rejected your advances. 7.
DON'T CHANGE ANYTHING IN YOUR AD Don't
attempt to change anything in your ad. If you change something, it may just start
working. Keep with what doesn't produce any results. 8.
DON'T LOGIN TO THE WEBSITE - EVER Once
you placed your personal ad, immediately forget about it - and forget your user
name and password, too. Don't login to the website again. If you do, your ad may
jump to the top of the search results and someone may write to you. Don't take
this risk. Just place the ad and forget about it. If
you follow this simple guidance, I can guarantee that you will flawlessly ruin
any chances for success with online dating sites and your love life will stay
just the way it is! ABOUT
THE AUTHOR: 
Elena Solomon is a dating coach.
Her
latest book "12
Simple Rules" became #1 'Love & Romance' bestseller in the leading
ebook distribution service in just ONE WEEK after the release. It shows you EXACTLY
how you can utilize the natural laws of attraction and our in-built sexual strategies
to win in the game of love. A special part in the book is devoted to online dating. Get
the UNFAIR ADVANTAGE in the battle of sexes! Go
here:
http://www.12SimpleRules.com/
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